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Smart Shoes For Little Feet

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I am an advocate for a “good children’s shoes” Good shoes does  not necessarily have to cost a lot but it should benefit your child’s foot.

If your child has overlapping toes observe if their toes overlap when barefoot a shoes with generous toe space is in order. If the toes lie flat without shoes, I recommend opting for a wide width shoe or going up a half size in their shoes. If they do not, go to a pediatric podiatrist.  A Chiropractor can even help to diagnose the issue by checking your child’s posture and stance.

Here a few options:

1. Smartfit by Payless these shoes run from $12.99-23.99. You can find them on sale and take advantage of BOGO offers. Smartfit makes all the necessary shoes from dress shoes and sneakers to sandals. They are designed to be generous in the toe area.

I usually buy Smartfit dress shoes because how often does my toddler actually wear dress shoes? Three times a year on average. I also buy Smartfit sneakers for school because shoes take a beating on the playground.

2. Buster Brown at Famous Footwear $29.99 + (but they are always on sale). Yes, they still make these and you can find them moderately priced at Famous Footwear. The bottom of the shoe is diagrammed to help parents find the correct shoe size. The “toe zone” area indicates that this is where the toes should be. If toes are above the toe zone, the shoe is too small. If toes are below the toe zone, the shoes are too big.

My daughter had a pair of  Buster Brown sandals last summer. They were great. The only problem was they create stinky piggies.

3. Polliwalks  $35.00. They are like Crocs in that they are water resistant clogs. But they are much cuter and character shaped. We have been through two pairs of Elmo Polliwalks. They are anti-microbial and well ventilated. Piggies stay clean, happy, and comfortable.

4. Stride Rite ($39.00 +) Good shoes and a good place to have your child’s shoes size measured. The shoes are divided by age groups (as most shoes are for kids).

My we had a pair of Stride Rite Oxfords that were adorable and held up for months. I don’t recommend the Twinkle Toes series because many of the sneakers are difficult to get on.  The tongue of the sneaker has elastic straps that are sewn into the shoes and they don’t seem to stretch enough. I felt like I was jamming my daughters foot into the sneaker. My favorite part of Stride Rite are the outlet stores that offer the same sizing services and a wide variety of footwear at a fraction of the price.

5. Pediped‘s come in as the most expensive on my list. Toddler shoes begin around $47.00 and some go up to $59.00.  However, the shoes are not only divided into categories based on age group but also the development of walking from infant shoes called Originals to Grip and Go for early walkers and Flex for children with a confident stride.  These shoes “go on and stay on” which is a big deal if your kid likes to remove shoes or if you have a baby who can kick a shoe off before you get the other one on.  Pediped’s are sold in many stores but usually it’s only the baby shoes. The website does have a store locator and sizing information in case you want to buy online.  And they offer information about pediatric podiatry.

I definitely recommend their sale section.  We are about to embark on our 3rd pair of Pediped’s for the summer, particularly in something that is water resistant and machine washable.

Remember, a good shoe may just be a shoe that gives your child’s foot extra wiggle room. Kids outgrow shoes like crazy; there is no way to know how long a pair may fit.  Smart shopping for quality shoes is definitely an art of parenting.

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Toddler Dental Care

From the time my daughter was a newborn I wondered about dental care. Did I have to brush her gums? Do you have to keep their breath fresh? I had no idea. As she grew into a toddler and I grew into a slightly more experienced parent, brushing my daughters teeth began easily. She seemed to enjoy the novelty of it. We found a fund toddler toothpaste. We agreed on a flavor. I began to brush her teeth twice a day, all four of them.

It took quite some time to make a regular habit out of it. Some days went by and I just forgot. I tried to keep a tooth brush in the kitchen and in the bathroom and I still forgot. Just like when you look at their fingernails to discover they have little baby Vampire Lestat nails. It happens.

I made her teeth brushing part of my teeth brushing routine. It was the only way. I don’t brush my teeth in the kitchen so I the struggle relegated to the bathroom.  This was a daily struggle. Regardless of the character on the toothbrush, she hated it. Everyday, twice a day, it was our little battle.

There is no other way to do this, it’s not like cutting her nails when she’s asleep. You CAN NOT brush a kids teeth when they are sleeping. That’s just common sense. Seriously.

Luckily, Santa Claus brought her a Dora The Explorer Spinbrush. Yes, a battery operated toothbrush. Since we got it, teeth brushing has been an absolute joy. She let’s me do it.  One of the greatest advantages is that I feel like the spinning bristles do a much better job in that squirmy toddler mouth than a standard brush can. It’s less effort and more results.

Just like we grew into nail clipping, teeth brushing has become a little easier.

If you liked this, check out my book: http://www.amazon.com/Pregnancy-Skeptical-Woman-ebook/dp/B0055E6ZAU/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1308075222&sr=8-1

Five Uses For An Over The Door Shoe Organizer

I walk past these everyday in my house and always forget just what an amazing, and cheap,  product a simple over the door shoe organizer can be. As an advocate of vertical storage wherever possible, what started as a fun find on Pinterest has become a staple in my home.

For less than 20 dollars (mine was only five) at Walmart, a shoe pouch organizer can be used anywhere there is a door or wall space to hold the following products and then some.

1. Toiletries in the bathroom

2. Cleaning products on the basement door

3. Spices or kitchen gadgets

4. Crafts

5. Child’s room for easy access to socks, baby products, small toys.

Not only is this item reasonably priced, it comes in a variety of sizes and the plastic ones wipe clean for easy maintenance.
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BYO Lunch

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When I work I pack my lunch everyday. I refuse to spend money and wait on line to buy food I really do not want to eat. I figure that I have been bringing a lunch to “school,” regardless of what side of the desk I am on, for the last 32 years and yes, I pack my lunch at night by following a few simple steps.

1. Wrap everything well.
2. Package lettuce and tomato separately
3. Store dressing on the side.
4. Stick to sandwiches and salads that will store well.
5. Pack a light, balanced meal. Sandwich or salad, something crunchy, fruit or yogurt, and a water.

What every “brown-bagger” needs is a good lunch bag. I began this semester with no lunch bag. I tried a small, reusable bag but it sat overnight, next to the refridgerator light bulb and melted. The search continued.

I am in love with my lunchbag. From the moment I found the BYO lunchbag. at Target, I knew it was “the one.”  Its aesthetic appealed to me first. Yes, I like that it looked liked a little purse. It is soft and stretchy, I can stuff it with reusable containers and it will mold to fit the contents. It is durable with a zipper closure, and machine washable. Moreover, when it is empty, I can fold it to a more compact size.

Toddler Tooth Care

 

I didn’t think about it until my daughter cut her first teeth but in that moment I pondered, “Do I have to brush her teeth?” Umm, yes.

I added one more item to the grooming list and my search began for the appropriate baby toothbrush and toothpaste. I found Orajel Toddler Toothpaste which is fluoride free and safe to swallow. It comes in kid friendly flavors, not like ketchup or anything like that but, you’ll find bubble gum, berry splash, etc in addition to some favorite television characters on the tube. I caution you, the toothpaste flavors are so inviting I have stopped my child from trying to suck it out of the tube on more than one occasion.

Teeth care takes conditioning.  I have brushed my daughter’s hair since the day she was born so that now, it’s not a traumatic event everyday. Since her first baby teeth came in, I have brushed her teeth. Today it can be a struggle if she is feeling fiesty and wants to do it herself. I don’t stop her from trying to brush her own teeth but I have to brush them first. Then she can have the toothbrush.

This is a life lesson. How will she know it is important unless we do it 2-3 times everyday and make it part of her life routine. Hygiene has to be taught. It has to be modeled. To me, it’s not up for debate. You have teeth, you brush them. Keep your mouth and body clean. End of story.

 

If you liked this, check out my book: http://www.amazon.com/Pregnancy-Skeptical-Woman-ebook/dp/B0055E6ZAU

The Final ThredUpdate

My ThredUp journey began on March 15 when I first ordered the bag. It took a little over 2 weeks to receive the bag after I was notified via email of a bag shortage. Once the bag arrived I really took my time gathering the clothing that I would end to ThredUp. In fact, I took almost 2 weeks and it got to the point where a customer service representative from the website emailed me to check the status of my bag. I was just busy and wanted to give it my full attention, I had no idea there were keeping track. In fact, it is only as a promotional opportunity that the bags are currently free. Very soon, each bag ordered will require a deposit of $4.95.

I fill my bag and send it off. On April 24th, I was notified that my bag was received. On May 15th my bag was processed and I was emailed with the amount of money I “earned.” $14.85. I think this figure is a bit low because I know I sent at least 4 never-been-worn outfits with tags. However, for the sake of convenience this process cost me nothing. I probably would have made more at a regular consignment shop but I know that would never have happened.

Finally, the last option of my ThredUp journey is whether or not I want to “cash out.” This means that I could have my funds transferred to my Paypal account. This is the only way to cash out but they do not tell you this until the end. Otherwise, you keep the funds in your ThredUp account to use for purchases.

My only two suggestions for this site are 1. Alert your customers about the Paypal cash-out when the bag is ordered. Not everyone has a Paypal account. 2. If you do not accept clothing under 12 months. Do not sell it on the website. It is clearly listed as a “restriction.” Keep it that way.

All in all, this was a positive experience. I am still debating as to whether or not I should “cash out.” In the meantime, I have already ordered and filled another bag. I don’t know if there is a limit on how many bags a customer can order. I’m sure I will find out soon enough.

If you liked this, check out my book: http://www.amazon.com/Pregnancy-Skeptical-Woman-ebook/dp/B0055E6ZAU

The Magic Of Aquaphor

I never heard of Aquaphor until I had a baby. My pediatrician gave me a sample when we noticed a patch of dry skin on Scarlett. Since then Aquaphor has been a staple at the changing station.

I don’t know why I never noticed this item before. Maybe it’s because I was never really worried about dry skin before I had a baby. Suddenly skin issues in this little person became a big deal amd made notice my own skin.

The important aspect of this product is that it’s an ointment. Lotions are light and don’t penetrate the skin. Cremes are slightly thicker and moisturize slightly more than lotion. Ointments are thick enough to moisturize and penetrate the skin without rubbing off.

Aquaphor is great for babies with dry skin. Use it after a bath to keep skin from getting itchy. A little goes a long way.

Apply it to raw, chapped skin and it will take away diaper rash overnight.

Rub it into your nails and cuticles for excellent hand care.

While Aquaphor is not cheap. Don’t be put off by the sticker price and don’t be afraid to use the store brand. You can find generic versions at Target, Harmon’s, and Walmart. Keep it around even if you don’t have kids.

If you liked this, check out my book: http://www.amazon.com/Pregnancy-Skeptical-Woman-ebook/dp/B0055E6ZAU

 

ThredUpdate #1

Before the big move, I shipped my bag of consignment goodies off to ThredUp. The bag is a very generous size and I was able to fill it completely. It was sturdy but my only issue was that the adhesive strip was not sticky enough to stay closed. I’m glad I noticed this and taped the seal with packing tape. Otherwise, I am confident this bag would have exploded all over a UPS truck somewhere.

A few days before I mailed my bag. I received an email from ThredUp reminding me to fill my bag. The email was not automated. In fact, there was a reply option in case I was having any issues. I did respond and tell them that I was delayed because of the move. I am not sure if there is a response time limit.

I sent the bag out and about 10 days later, I recieved another email telling me the bag arrived safely at ThredUp and that my garments were being “carefully reviewed my a team of ThredUp moms.” I couldn’t help but feel a little judged by this. A group of women assessing my ability to keep clothing neat and clean. It’s like having my laundry and stain removal skills evaluated.

Now I wait to find out how much this stuff is worth and what happens next. In the meantime, I already have enough clothing to fill another ThredUp bag. It was so easy that even if it doesn’t pay much, it’s a little more in Scarlett’s piggy bank than was there before.

So far I am still impressed. If I had to make one request, I wish they took shoes.  Otherwise, the customer service has been very interactive an helpful. I’m looking forward to phase 3.

 

If you liked this post  check out my book, Pregnancy For The Skeptical Woman:   http://www.amazon.com/Pregnancy-Skeptical-Woman-ebook/dp/B0055E6ZAU

Why One Tricycle Will Destroy A Generation

I have seen them used frequently. I even registered for one once and then deleted it. I guess this is why I took the pushable tricycle off of Scarlett’s birthday registry.

Take a good look:

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Not only is this item something you will never need. It is everything that is wrong with parenting in 21st century America. A tricycle is a great product. It is one of  the first opportunities for a toddler to experience how navigate and move together. How to operate a vehicle. Think about the wonderful moment as you stand in front of your toddler and encourage them to ride to you. You clap and cheer. It’s a milestone. Next will be training wheels and finally a big kid bike. It all begins from those first moments of encouragement on a tricycle.

So why are parents taking this milestone away in the name of convenience? Is encouraging your kid so much of a chore that you have to buy a bike attached to a stick so you can push them along?

This line of products that remove effort and encouragement has extended from trikes to Cozy Coupe’s. There are dozens of toddler products that remove the effort. And when you remove the effort a parent removes the development of fine motor skills, cause and effect, problem solving , speed control. For what? So you don’t have to smile and clap for your kid? So you can control every movement he/she makes?

Even if the stick is removable, the damage has been done. Take the stick off one day and wonder why your kid doesn’t understand what’s going on? Why won’t little Tommy pedal?

I am going to put it on the line now. My prediction is that it is going to start with this tricycle on a stick and, a generation of parents who are too busy to teach a kid how to use a regular tricycle, will  create a generation of people who need to be pushed along for the rest of their lives, devoid of motivation and intellectually under-developed.

That’s just my opinion.

Resolving The Consignment Dilemma

Since I have had kids and watched them outgrow clothes, I often dream of bringing everything to a consignment shop. With little kids who often outgrow clothes before they will even look remotely used the need to stay on top of the clothing situation is pressing.

Usually, I have keep a canvas laundry bag in each child’s bedroom. This works well when your step kids are visitation kids who don’t keep much at your house. The bags made things manageable. When they outgrow an item it goes in the bag. After doing laundry and checking bags, I know what I needed to replace in a new size. Approximately, 3 times a year I collect all of the clothing and my own and deliver it to the red cross. Typically, I donate. In fact, I donate almost anything I do not use.

When I had the baby her clothes multiplied faster than I ever expected. Beautiful outfits, nice clothes were being worn once before she outgrew them. I began to keep all of her outgrown clothes  in a laundry basket. The very special outfits I saved in a plastic storage bin.

This still leaves an insurmountable stock of clothing. My inner frugalista has always wanted to send clothing to a consignment shop but I have never had the time. Donating has always been a good way to pay it forward and de-clutter my house. But I still longed for the benefits of consignment.

Through Twitter I learned about Thredup.com a new consignment website where you register, they mail you plastic bag with prepaid postage. Fill it with gently used, brand name clothing for children 13 months and up, then return it to them for a profit. This was genuinely one of the most perfect inventions in the world.

I filled my bag with (that holds tons by the way) and I am bringing it to a UPS store today to send it to the land of online consignment. Even better, because Thredup.com only takes slightly higher end clothing, I can still donate my store brand (Circo, Faded Glory, Garanimals) clothing and tiny baby clothes to good will.

If you liked this, check out my book: http://www.amazon.com/Pregnancy-Skeptical-Woman-ebook/dp/B0055E6ZAU

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